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These are all HIGHLY RECOMMENDED books which have been tried and tested. Each is guaranteed to make an impact of some kind, perhaps through changing your perception, giving you a new direction or, at the least, providing more information about yourself to propel you forward and enhance the quality of your life.

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10 Easy Steps to Growing Older Disgracefully!


Elaine Sihera
ISBN: 0951734156, Paperback - BUY

If you fear ageing, or it worries you in any way, you cannot afford to miss this! It will change your perception of yourself, your loved ones and your world. To begin with, DEAD PEOPLE DON'T AGE! So if you are ageing you're very much alive and need to cherish that precious gift, not be sad because of it. Most people have a resigned attitude to ageing, dreading the years and/or wishing their life away, feeling negative about the blessing of extra life they have been given. 10 easy steps to...Growing Older Disgracefully seeks to change all that and give you a new way of viewing your life. It has universal appeal, something for everyone, no matter where they are in the world.

Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway


Susan Jeffers
ISBN: 0345487427, Paperback - BUY

Jeffers discusses the crippling effects of fear in her personal life and explains how she formulated a course of action for conquering it. Her answers are simple, her course of action difficult only because it requires courage. She explains how fear is based on the uncertainty of change and the lack of positive self image.

An excellent starter book for boosting confidence and overcoming fear!

How to Win Friends & Influence People


Dale Carnegie
ISBN: 0671723650, Paperback - BUY

Some brilliant gems on how to interact with others in the most effective and emotionally beneficial way.

Feeling Good


David D. Burns
ISBN: 0380810336, Paperback - BUY

The good news is that anxiety, guilt, pessimism, procrastination, low self-esteem, and other "black holes" of depression can be cured without drugs. In FEELING GOOD, eminent psychiatrist, David D. Burns, M.D., outlines the remarkable, scientifically proven techniques that will immediately lift your spirits and help you develop a positive outlook on life.

What Matters Most


Hyrum W. Smith
ISBN: 0684872579, Paperback - BUY

With advice that's more practical than spiritual, this self-help book encourages readers to find greater meaning in life through determining goals and formulating a mission statement.

An excellent book that starts off slowly but gets into its subject matter in a way that will change your perspective and make a lot of sense.

The Power of Positive Thinking


Norman Vincent Peale
ISBN: 0743234804, Paperback - BUY

You will learn:
* How to eliminate that most devastating handicap---self doubt;
* How to free yourself from worry, stress and resentment:
* How to climb above problems to visualize solutions and then attain them.

Well worth the read.


The Power of Your Subconscious Mind


Joseph Murphy
ISBN: 1451554737, Paperback - BUY

At last, a great new scientific discovery brings the incredible force of your subconscious mind under your control. Here are the simple, scientifically proven techniques and the astonishing facts about how your subconscious powers can perform miracles of healing. How lung cancer has been cured and optic nerves made whole again. How you can use the newly discovered Law of Attraction to increase your money-getting powers. How your subconscious mind can win you friends, peace of mind, and even help you to attract the ideal mate.

50 Self Help classics


Tom Butler-Bowdon
ISBN: 1857883233, Paperback - BUY

This is the first and only "bitesized" guide to the works that have captured the imagination of millions and inspired readers everywhere to follow their dreams.

As an introduction to the books that can give you an entirely different perspective and even change your life, this book has no equal.



William Bridges
ISBN: 073820904X, Paperback - BUY

Whether it is chosen or thrust upon you, change brings both opportunities and turmoil. Transitions has helped hundreds of thousands of readers cope with these issues by providing an elegantly simple yet profoundly insightful roadmap of the transition process. With the understanding born of both personal and professional experience, William Bridges takes readers step by step through the three stages of any transition: The Ending, The Neutral Zone, and, in time, The New Beginning.

Finding Your Own North Star


Martha Beck
ISBN: 0812932188, Paperback - BUY

Beck teaches that each individual has a core personality that encompasses his/her desires, emotions and preferences, which is sometimes blocked by a social self that responds to external influences and cultivates survival skills. The most fascinating material is on how to read warnings from the essential self: low energy, lapses into illness, forgetfulness, addictions, Freudian slips and mood swings.

Think and Grow Rich


Napoleon Hill
ISBN: 1441435506, Paperback - BUY

A must for anyone wanting to improve their lives and their positive thinking. There have been more millionaires and indeed, billionaires, who have made their fortunes as a result of reading this success classic than any other book every printed. NAPOLEON HILLS's "Think and Grow Rich" is the authors most famous work. This is the COMPLETE Reference Book.

Real Magic


Wayne W. Dyer
ISBN: 0060935820, Paperback - BUY

Dyer offers concrete suggestions about how to "get to purpose" through service to others and unconditional love; how to become spiritual beings and how to create a "miracle mindset." He also explores ways readers might improve relationships and find prosperity, personal identity and even physical health.

Quite a fascinating book with lots of useful goodies in it.

Unlimited Power


Anthony Robbins
ISBN: 0684845776, Paperback - BUY

If you have ever dreamed of a better life, Unlimited Power will show you how to achieve the extraordinary quality of life you desire and deserve, and how to master your personal and professional life.

A giant of a book in every way! Not for the faint hearted.